TestIs my family OK? Question 1

It’s good if your parents manage to show respect and consideration for one another. It’s normal for them to argue. When this happens voices are raised and unthinking words are sometimes uttered. If those involved are aware that they are arguing about something and not trying to destroy one another, they can make up after the argument and carry on their lives without fearing for the next argument.

Arguments are sometimes necessary to clear up things. Things can get out of hand, sparks can fly and unkind things can be said that will be regretted later. But if one partner is always being insulted and belittled by the other, this is a form of emotional violence. If you are not sure whether your parents just argue sometimes or whether it’s a question emotional violence, ask an advice centre. They will help you to relativise what you are experiencing.